My name is Jay Fillmer. I grew up in Tariffville (Simsbury) Connecticut in the '90s. Then moved to California when I was 15 and try not to look back. I have friends and I have enemies. I love scary movies, vodka, smoking a cigarette after an intense moment, hiking, boats, water, the sun, sunglasses, California, and having no set direction in my life. I'm single because I won't settle for less again. I want a guy who understands me, patient, knows when and how to argue and believes in some sort of higher power. I laugh at the dumbest things, I'm vulgar and direct. But I can also be very nice. My biggest fears are: Clowns, Any kind of black bird, Dolls and Whales. I'm also bipolar. With that comes creativity. To sum everything up, I'm a Libra.
